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    But if it helps with soreness i'm definitely willing to...

    No, he needs to revamp his techniques to suit you

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    exactly.

    imo, sex shouldn't hurt.

    if you are naturally lubricated and you still tear and experience soreness during and afterward, your husband should: 1. slow down, or 2. change positions, or 3. not fully enter you if his girth is what's causing your discomfort, or any combination of the three.

    i would not sacrifice my personal comfort so that my husband could get HIS.

    sometimes, i'm tighter than other times. and during the times when i'm tighter, i'll tell him to go slowly cause if he just starts ramming, i'll get injured. which brings me back to my point that sex shouldn't hurt.

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    ^^^

    But see in the midst of getting my groove on it's ALL yum yum, then after we are both sweaty and exhausted....ouch! Sex is not painful for me but it's the after affect that is the problem. I ain't even thinkin' 'bout bein' sore during, it's the after that I pay the piper!

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    But see in the midst of getting my groove on...

    let's just be honest, you a straight-up fa-reak! _ShiftyEye:

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    imo, sex shouldn't hurt.if you are naturally lubricated and you...

    ^^I'm aware of this.

    The problem I had is that during intercourse it feels nice (I enjoy it) and there is lubrication whether naturally or by using a lubricant so its not like I was able to pinpoint what he was doing wrong during cause it didn't feel like he was doing anything wrong until afterwards when the soreness kicked in and I had just assumed that my vagina was just sensitive but according to you all its a matter of technique. I get it now.

    When I said "I" have to revamp I meant "We" cause obviously it takes two to make a thing go riggghht (remember that song guys?..I'm in a weird mood today don't mind me

    ETA: Just read what luv jones wrote and that is EXACTLY what i'm talking about!

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    I'm in an LDR so when I first see him the first couple of times I need to ummm loosen up a bit. We use lube and go slow and certain positions he knows we can't do right away.

    On the other hand sometimes we get carried away and have marathon sessions and I'll start to get a bit sore, then I'll tell him and we stop and take a nap.

    I've also noticed that sometimes soreness occurs if I climax and he takes too long to climax after I have, its like my pretty girl wants to take her ball and go home cuz she's gotten hers!

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    I have the same issue as BeautifullyHuman and LuvJones. It's AFTER sex that it's an issue.

    I was starting to wonder of I'm allergic to latex or something.

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    switching positions makes it a little dryer for me cuz the air hits. or when he pulls out and tries to re-enter.

    i also think sweat can make it sore. sweat is salty. getting that inside you can't be healthy. keep a wash cloth handy.

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    I often need a day or two to recuperate.
    wow

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    same here....i usually dont realise the damage has been done til after the fact. ok thats a semi lie....sometimes i can telll "ok this might hurt tomorrow" but damn if don't let it continue ...those times are usually worth the lil soreness lol.

    But see in the midst of getting my groove on...

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    ...i've been there too

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    I am cosigning on to this feeling. Afterwards I feel the pain, and many times I cannot do IT consecutively. The last time I went for my annual exam, my Dr. made a comment on how tight I was. She told me to enjoy it while it lasts. It was quite awkward to hear that that moment. I think it is a combination of size and tightness. I am in a long disance relationship and wonder if I had access to a constant supply would I still have the soreness.
    To be continued....

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    i'm on the tight side as well and if my expereince can be relied on having a constant supply won't change the situation. when i was in a LDR i thought that it was just me needing to have the repetition to open me up but when i had the constant supply and marathon, going like rabbits sessions it was the same thing. the key is lube i think - natural or otherwise. as long as the lube factor is there all throughout i'm good to go.

    To be continued.......

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    I used to have this same problem when I used to have sex. We're closed up shop for now. Anyhow, I can't remember who told me about this stuff but I did help a lot with the after-sex soreness. It's called Replens. It's a vaginal moisturizer thats long lasting. Much longer than just using regular lube alone. It comes in a suppository applicator to be inserted directly into your vagina. One application used to keep me "moisturized" for a little over a week. I used this stuff for quite a long time with my last relationship and it never caused any yeast infetions or discharge. Here's a link: http://www.lildrugstore.com/ReplensCat.asp...5d-716c856b8474

    Also, I purchased mine from Walmart. HTH ladies!!

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    KY helps a whole lot.

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