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    What are some unwritten rules that best friends, male or female, should always follow?

    If you express interest in a man, your best friend should never date this man whatsoever. Even if dude doesn't like you and likes your friend instead, she should never touch! *I've been on both ends of this stick

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    1.If i diss you for a man/date it's all good. You will always be there.

    Me and my girl live by this. I can't spend all my time with her/them. I know that if he f's the date up, she will be there to comfort me afterwards. We can always kick it another time.

    Similar to what Megan said...
    2. If i wanted him and didn't get him, you can't touch him!

    That has been broken a few times, but it was my girl and he really didn't matter anyway.

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    If you express interest in a man, your best friend...

    I used to feel this way, but now I don't. How can you claim a man? Especially if he don't like you? Because my bf doesn't have security issues, this is a non-issue with us.

    But anyways, there is an unwritten rule that when we give half as* "hey, whats up" that means that we dont feel like talking and to stay out of the way. (we've been rommies for two years)

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    ^Lol...it's not about "security issues" you just don't do that. Kinda like you saying that you wanted a certain dress or car(that you probably couldn't even get) that your friend turns around and gets it. That's just wrong. I or my friend might suck it up and act like she didn't feel betrayed but you do. I think that's just human nature to feel that way, but it's something that you can eventually get over.

    You must have started dating a guy your friend liked?

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    1. Forgive..forgive ...forgive.

    2. No hard feelings if someone sneaks off with a shirt of yours they really like.

    3. Everybody needs space. No hard feelings if someone doesn't feel like listening or hanging out.

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    A lot of you might disagree and it may seem childish but I think we all, no matter what age, will go through this...

    If I'm upset with a person, you're upset with them too even if they didn't do anything to you.

    Come on now, I know yall have felt that atleast once.

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    If I'm upset with a person, you're upset with them...

    bold... I know what you mean. That happens alot with my sisters and their husband and boyfriend. If they are really upset with them and tell me what's going on i get pissed. Then i will see them and they are all lovey-dovey! I'm like "what is going on?". They gotta let me know when they work things out or i will be forever pissed at their mates.

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    I think the number one best friend rule is "Tell me the truth...not what I want to hear". Is it really helpful to come to you for advice when you will just appease my feelings and not challenge me to grow?

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    ^True....if the outfit I have on is ugly, let me know before I walk out the house looking a fool.

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    ITA also, don't judge my situation, you might not agree with it and might do it differently but its my life and I choose how to live it...but all advice still welcome.

    If I call you and we spend hours talking about why i shouldn't do a certain thing like call an ex after 8 months and we talk thru the pro's and cons of calling, you know that soon as we get off the phone that call is going to be made...again no judgements just support

    Months later when I say "damn, i should never have made that call" you don't say I told you so.

    Man I my friends

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    If I'm upset with a person, you're upset with them...

    This is a toughy. I used to get REALLY pissed when people hurt my friends' feelings-especially men. But inevitably my friend would end up making up with, or getting back with the guy and then I'd have to smile in his face or listen to how great he was two weeks later. It's sticky cuz my chick friend has moved on and I'm still pissed!

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    These are 2 thing that i think are important

    1. Practice honesty and love, and practice both in even doses. because sometimes honesty can be brutal, but love can over come the blow

    2. knowing when to speak and when to listen (a very hard one for me)

    Off Topic (kinda): My best friend is like a sister to me and I just want her to know I lover her Headed tail

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    I agree, my bf found out the guy she was seeing was cheating on her, so of course we both were pissed at him. Then several months later they "work things out" and now she goes on about how he's everything she wants in a guy and she springs this up on me when we are supposed to be "forget about him, you can do better" phase. She's alot more forgiving than I am (and apparently has amnesia), I still remember me staying up all night... and I mean all night to comfort her because of him.

    Another best friend rule: If I am having an absolutely horrible day, do not tell me about all the good things that happened to you that day. Sympathize with me, help me feel better, and once I'm in a better mood (whether it be the next hour or the day)... then that is when you can tell be about the cute guy you made eye contact with or how you found 20 bucks.

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    My and my BFF don't really have rules but we both feel like....

    ...if we haven't talked in awhile, we're still friends.

    ...we should ALWAYS be honest with each other no matter what.

    ...if we ain't getting ganged it's a one on one battle esp. if you talking sh*t.

    ...we never have boy problems b/c we like different types but we do have to go through the same bull.

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    all these rules. thats why i dont have any "best" friends.

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    If you express interest in a man, your best friend...

    Double word.

    Also....

    If we have discussed a man and have determined he is a dog - and you still go back to him and he dogs you more - then that topic becomes closed. We don't discuss him.

    If we all know that the shyte stanks - why discuss the odor in detail?

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    What are some unwritten rules that best friends, male or...

    I used to feel this way, but now I don't. How can you claim a man? Especially if he don't like you?
    I've definitely broken this rule. But now, that's how I feel about it. You just can't claim a guy. I probably won't do that to another friend, but I've always been lenient when it's done to me. I just step aside.

    And LO freaking L at puchi.

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